Do not be a repulsive tyrant. There are but a few traits of social life more off-putting than tyranny. I’m not referring to historical war time figures (a topic for another day). I’m focused here on the petty tyrants. Do not be that man who trashes every other opinion you are presented with. Remember – a gentleman is humble and courteous, whereas the tyrant is neither.
Focus on the virtues that make you an honorable man. Integrity. Intellect. Fidelity. Honesty, above all. Be not boastful nor overly proud. Actions noticed are much heavier that actions merely heard about.
Strive to be GENTLE. Afterall, it’s the root word of Gentleman. Being gentle is not something you inherit or earn. Gentility is gained by never taking advantage of another, sticking to the truth, politeness towards those we associate with, and adhering to a code of honor.
Focus on how you treat your mother, wife, and sister. A rude son, husband, or brother is NOT a gentleman. If you are rude to your mother, wife, or sister, you are giving license to others that it’s ok to speak / act to them in this fashion. (More on this later).
This may seem trivial – but while dining, be neither fast nor overly slow. It is considered rude to speak too much during a dinner. You’ll find yourself rushing to eat dinner at the end (catching- up) while everyone else is already finished and waiting on you – or leaves you alone.
