Habits of SELF CONTROL are the basis for foundation of gentlemanly manners. Knowing how to reel in your emotions and maintain self-control will add to the dignity of perfect self-command. This, in turn, will pave the way for TACT to pave your way thru life.
Avoid conceited manners. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. It’s the point where your perceived superiority to those around you becomes vulgar and disrespectful and viewed as off-putting by others.
Avoid excessive PRIDE and BOASTFULNESS. The overly proud man places himself at a distance from others – and when you view yourself at a distance from others, they appear small to you – but remember, you also appear small to them. Balance your pride with a healthy dose of humility.
Do not dwell on your title or status in life. HUMILITY is a characteristic that goes a long way. Do not be domineering over inferiors, nor be disrespectful towards your superiors. There is a fine line to walk when standing on a family name or wealth as it related to being conceited and arrogant. Staying humble will go a long way towards civility, generosity, and kindness.
Be Respectful towards women TIP - When you meet a lady at the bottom of the steps, you should proceed up the flight ahead of her. When descending from the top allow her to precede you.
